Just found ordered them online and have em delivered as a present.

“Two of the most important books” is a good recommendation…

And obviously it’s not only women who have trouble with asking for what they really want, or realizing what they deserve. I think it depends a lot on how you were raised.

I remember back in first year university and earlier, I’ve never asked for a remark, I never questioned my professors, etc. Once I learned that they’re only human and that a lot of TAs are stupid and lazy, and that I deserved remarks, I started asking for them and my GPA really skyrocketted (I also started trying harder because I felt more accountable for my marks).

I also remember this going back to before highschool, where my friend’s mom would come down to school and yell at all the teachers and raise all sorts of hell whenever his marks weren’t “good enough”. He always got better marks than me.

But marks aside, it’s super important knowing what you deserve! Good job on going out and getting it!